july 10, 2011, sunday, day 10
well. it's been a doozy of the past few days. seems longer. i was just starting to get a little routine started with working with each kiddo on workbook type stuff and going to my spanish class when norton started going downhill again. aubren (a friend of ours from church) got here on thursday night and i am so grateful for her presence. she has helped out a ton and has the most awesome attitude. my next post is dedicated to her. but beyond that our days ave been pretty similar. eat breakfast with the high school group. either walk around the market area/gringo area which is downhill another 200ft and tires out the kids. make pbj sandwiches back at the house. "quiet time" while janis goes to spanish class on the weekday afternoons. play around the house. go eat dinner with the high schoolers. get ready for bed and lights out.
Wednesday, July 13, 2011
Tuesday, July 12, 2011
ANOTHER HEALTH UPDATE
From Norton: Okay, so I spoke too soon. Literally, I posted the last update on Saturday around noon, began walking home from my school and started feeling horrible again. I was coughing like crazy (felt like I was going to keel over in some coffee bushes on several occasions) and by Saturday night my fever was back up to 103.2. My head, jaw, and throat felt like they were going to explode from the pain and coughing. We knew I had to see a doctor. It was probably something serious. Someone said Dengue fever and that made us worried.
Doctors are notoriously bad in this region. Americans are told to stay away from them. In fact, before we came, one family who had stayed in our village for six months last year told us to bring our own suture kit because when their son needed stitches and they went to the local clinic, the staff didn't even have any sutures, needles, etc. There is only one real hospital in the area across the lake and up the mountain in a town called Solola and it has a really bad reputation. Westerners are urged to avoid it at all costs. Remember that fact. Bottom line: if you really need a doctor or any kind of medical attention, you need to go to Antigua or Guatemala City 4 hours away.
Before making a long trip to Antigua, we asked an American friend who runs a local humanitarian organization and has lived nearby for a few years if she knew of a local doctor that was good. She did...his name was Francisco and he was in our village and he was familiar with Westerners! Awesome! But unfortunately it was Saturday night at 7 pm and he wasn't available until Monday. Cata (the woman we are staying with) said she would call her doctor to come see me--her doctor works at the hospital in Solola and would come by after work around 8 or 9 pm. Ugh, against all the advice we had received, this is where we just had to trust Cata and trust God was taking care of us. I was getting worse by the hour and we decided to take whatever help we could.
The doctor Miguel arrived about 9 pm. He was wonderful. I told him my symptoms in broken Spanish and he agreed that he didn't think it was just the flu. He took my blood pressure, listened to me breathing (and coughing) and then looked down my throat, after which he immediately said I had an infection in my tonsils, or tonsillitis (or some other kind of infection and my tonsils were inflamed). At first it was puzzling. Then I was a bit scared because I thought that most people that had tonsillitis had to have their tonsils taken out and I certainly did not want to do that in Guatemala. But then it started to make sense. My throat wasn't sore in the typical "sore throat" kind of way, but it was painful and tonsillitus explained many of the symptoms. And after looking down my throat, he seemed pretty darn sure. He prescribed an antibiotic and said it should clear up the infection in a few days; he also prescribed a liquid specifically for the pain/inflammation in my throat. He was so nice. When I asked him how much we could pay him (you just pay doctors on the spot in Guatemala), he said not to worry about it. Turns out he isn't just Cata's doctor, but a cousin of hers and he wanted to do a favor. So Janis gave him a bag of chocolates instead.
The pharmacy was still open so Janis, Aubren, and Nancy went down there, got the medicine and I started taking it Saturday night.
So...now it's Tuesday around 1 pm. I've been taking drugs for 3 full days and honestly, I haven't felt a lot better yet. Just today, I'm getting a little bit of energy back and coughing a little less and getting around a little more and we're hoping that the antibiotics are now having their full effect and I'll feel a lot better in the next few days. Thanks for praying for us. We do have other updates about more "positive" things. We'll post those soon.
Doctors are notoriously bad in this region. Americans are told to stay away from them. In fact, before we came, one family who had stayed in our village for six months last year told us to bring our own suture kit because when their son needed stitches and they went to the local clinic, the staff didn't even have any sutures, needles, etc. There is only one real hospital in the area across the lake and up the mountain in a town called Solola and it has a really bad reputation. Westerners are urged to avoid it at all costs. Remember that fact. Bottom line: if you really need a doctor or any kind of medical attention, you need to go to Antigua or Guatemala City 4 hours away.
Before making a long trip to Antigua, we asked an American friend who runs a local humanitarian organization and has lived nearby for a few years if she knew of a local doctor that was good. She did...his name was Francisco and he was in our village and he was familiar with Westerners! Awesome! But unfortunately it was Saturday night at 7 pm and he wasn't available until Monday. Cata (the woman we are staying with) said she would call her doctor to come see me--her doctor works at the hospital in Solola and would come by after work around 8 or 9 pm. Ugh, against all the advice we had received, this is where we just had to trust Cata and trust God was taking care of us. I was getting worse by the hour and we decided to take whatever help we could.
The doctor Miguel arrived about 9 pm. He was wonderful. I told him my symptoms in broken Spanish and he agreed that he didn't think it was just the flu. He took my blood pressure, listened to me breathing (and coughing) and then looked down my throat, after which he immediately said I had an infection in my tonsils, or tonsillitis (or some other kind of infection and my tonsils were inflamed). At first it was puzzling. Then I was a bit scared because I thought that most people that had tonsillitis had to have their tonsils taken out and I certainly did not want to do that in Guatemala. But then it started to make sense. My throat wasn't sore in the typical "sore throat" kind of way, but it was painful and tonsillitus explained many of the symptoms. And after looking down my throat, he seemed pretty darn sure. He prescribed an antibiotic and said it should clear up the infection in a few days; he also prescribed a liquid specifically for the pain/inflammation in my throat. He was so nice. When I asked him how much we could pay him (you just pay doctors on the spot in Guatemala), he said not to worry about it. Turns out he isn't just Cata's doctor, but a cousin of hers and he wanted to do a favor. So Janis gave him a bag of chocolates instead.
The pharmacy was still open so Janis, Aubren, and Nancy went down there, got the medicine and I started taking it Saturday night.
So...now it's Tuesday around 1 pm. I've been taking drugs for 3 full days and honestly, I haven't felt a lot better yet. Just today, I'm getting a little bit of energy back and coughing a little less and getting around a little more and we're hoping that the antibiotics are now having their full effect and I'll feel a lot better in the next few days. Thanks for praying for us. We do have other updates about more "positive" things. We'll post those soon.
Saturday, July 9, 2011
gt update july 3-6
july 3, 2011, Sunday, day 3 continued
We hopped on the back of antonio’s truck around 4pm and headed to san Pablo for church. Their church starts at 5pm just like our church. Cata motioned for us to sit in the front row and at some point during the service Antonio talked about us and then everyone clapped. Who knows what he said. :) we sang a couple of songs all together and then a group of kids got up and sang. Then a group of women. Then a group of men. Don’t know if they always do that. One thing I noticed. Guatemalans may be quiet in general but not during a worship service! Those women sang sooo loud. Even the one using the microphone. They really belt it out. And Antonio preached pretty loudly also. Marin kept asking, “why is Antonio yelling?” about halfway through, marin needed to go to the potty. We walked out the back and there were a bunch of kids playing there. They just stared at marin and then came up and were touching her hair and skin. Marin was like a statue. I don’t think she knew what to do. I told her that they probably didn’t see children with blonde hair and fair skin too much. It was kinda cute. After the service we headed back home where cata made dinner and then it was almost 9pm! I thought for sure the kids would sleep later the next morning after all the activity during the day and no nap.
July 4, 2011, Monday, day 4
Guess how late the kids slept in?? 6am! Why was I not too surprised? We got up and took showers and ate mosh again for breakfast and were basically into our day before 8am. Kinda makes for a long day. Norton left for his first day of Spanish classes and I helped cata clean dishes and did some “school work” with the kids. I got a call from Norton around 8:15am saying that the school had too many students and not enough teachers so he was going to have to wait until tomorrow to start. So this week he’ll go Tuesday thru Saturday. He came on home and we piddled around a bit and then left to go walk down to the “gringo” part of san pedro to have lunch and meet with a lady we’ve been in contact with who does work in san Pablo. Antonio and cata live at the very top of san pedro and the gringo part is all the way near the edge of the lake. Nice to walk down. We weren’t sure how the kids would do coming back up. We ate at the place where Norton had been before. Three tacos for 10 quetzales (a little over a dollar) it was pretty yummy. Then we got the kids some ice cream and found a coffee shop to wait for our friend. the kids had colors and paper and really did pretty well considering they had to stay put for so long. Marin fell asleep on norton’s shoulder during the whole meeting. She was so tired. Afterwards we started the long walk up to the house. The kids kept wanting to ride a tuk tuk again but we encouraged them and they made it back. So proud of our little guy and gals. They have transitioned pretty well overall. Some fighting but also using their imaginations to make up games. Although I sometimes feel so out of place, they have not complained about how different it is or anything. Today when townsend asked me a question, I answered, “si” (yes). He said, “say yes!” I think he was tired of the whole Spanish thing at that moment. :)
July 5, 2011, Tuesday, day 5
just some highlights-there's a group of high schoolers who are here to do some work with Antonio in San Pablo. we met them this morning at breakfast. we will be having breakfast and dinner with them for the next few weeks. Cata is cooking. I'm helping. Or at least trying to. :) after breakfast this morning i took the kids to a "park" where there is a fountain with some big fish and turtles swimming around. while we were there i noticed the back of a woman who looked like my spanish teacher, ana maria. from five years ago. it was! we talked for a bit and then made plans for me to go to her house for an hour in the afternoons for spanish lessons. she was ready to start today so i went up to her house around 3pm and we began. she is such a great teacher for me. her sense of humor fits mine and we have a great time. it ended up being more like two hours. i'm so glad we could work out for me to get a little bit of classes in. norton signed townsend up for classes at his school during the third week that we are here. there was a family with a five year old daughter who was taking classes and they told norton that it was going well so we decided to let townsend give it a shot.
July 6, 2011, Wednesday, day 6
pretty routine day. breakfast with the mission group. marin has latched on to one girl who is from boulder, colorado. they were both coloring away this morning. i don't think marin will leave her alone now. after breakfast i took the kids back to antonio's house. (we've been doing the meals at cata's parents house) i spent some one on one time with each kid doing some workbooks that i brought. norton came home for lunch and then i left for my spanish class. when i got back norton had a headache and fever. i gave him some advil and then the kids and i walked down to dinner. right after everyone had finished, the power went out. i think it's pretty typical. it had been raining alot today. we walked back to the house where i am now. fortunately the power just came back on. i don't like that norton is sick. we seem so far removed from everything. no internet to find out what he might have. or to email the doctor. and i think about how these people have lived like this always. the last couple of days antonio had a headache but he just went about this business. no laying down to rest. or at least i didn't see him do that. kinda different. norton and i are a bit concerned about ellory. she just seems so anxious or something. she always wants to be right by mommy. this morning i got some bottles of bubbles and we went to play with some kids next door. townsend and marin ended up running around with the kids but ellory just stayed on the porch blowing bubbles with me and the other mom. it doesn't necessarily surprise us, but we want her to enjoy this trip and are trying to think about how we can help her have more fun.
pics to come soon...
We hopped on the back of antonio’s truck around 4pm and headed to san Pablo for church. Their church starts at 5pm just like our church. Cata motioned for us to sit in the front row and at some point during the service Antonio talked about us and then everyone clapped. Who knows what he said. :) we sang a couple of songs all together and then a group of kids got up and sang. Then a group of women. Then a group of men. Don’t know if they always do that. One thing I noticed. Guatemalans may be quiet in general but not during a worship service! Those women sang sooo loud. Even the one using the microphone. They really belt it out. And Antonio preached pretty loudly also. Marin kept asking, “why is Antonio yelling?” about halfway through, marin needed to go to the potty. We walked out the back and there were a bunch of kids playing there. They just stared at marin and then came up and were touching her hair and skin. Marin was like a statue. I don’t think she knew what to do. I told her that they probably didn’t see children with blonde hair and fair skin too much. It was kinda cute. After the service we headed back home where cata made dinner and then it was almost 9pm! I thought for sure the kids would sleep later the next morning after all the activity during the day and no nap.
July 4, 2011, Monday, day 4
Guess how late the kids slept in?? 6am! Why was I not too surprised? We got up and took showers and ate mosh again for breakfast and were basically into our day before 8am. Kinda makes for a long day. Norton left for his first day of Spanish classes and I helped cata clean dishes and did some “school work” with the kids. I got a call from Norton around 8:15am saying that the school had too many students and not enough teachers so he was going to have to wait until tomorrow to start. So this week he’ll go Tuesday thru Saturday. He came on home and we piddled around a bit and then left to go walk down to the “gringo” part of san pedro to have lunch and meet with a lady we’ve been in contact with who does work in san Pablo. Antonio and cata live at the very top of san pedro and the gringo part is all the way near the edge of the lake. Nice to walk down. We weren’t sure how the kids would do coming back up. We ate at the place where Norton had been before. Three tacos for 10 quetzales (a little over a dollar) it was pretty yummy. Then we got the kids some ice cream and found a coffee shop to wait for our friend. the kids had colors and paper and really did pretty well considering they had to stay put for so long. Marin fell asleep on norton’s shoulder during the whole meeting. She was so tired. Afterwards we started the long walk up to the house. The kids kept wanting to ride a tuk tuk again but we encouraged them and they made it back. So proud of our little guy and gals. They have transitioned pretty well overall. Some fighting but also using their imaginations to make up games. Although I sometimes feel so out of place, they have not complained about how different it is or anything. Today when townsend asked me a question, I answered, “si” (yes). He said, “say yes!” I think he was tired of the whole Spanish thing at that moment. :)
July 5, 2011, Tuesday, day 5
just some highlights-there's a group of high schoolers who are here to do some work with Antonio in San Pablo. we met them this morning at breakfast. we will be having breakfast and dinner with them for the next few weeks. Cata is cooking. I'm helping. Or at least trying to. :) after breakfast this morning i took the kids to a "park" where there is a fountain with some big fish and turtles swimming around. while we were there i noticed the back of a woman who looked like my spanish teacher, ana maria. from five years ago. it was! we talked for a bit and then made plans for me to go to her house for an hour in the afternoons for spanish lessons. she was ready to start today so i went up to her house around 3pm and we began. she is such a great teacher for me. her sense of humor fits mine and we have a great time. it ended up being more like two hours. i'm so glad we could work out for me to get a little bit of classes in. norton signed townsend up for classes at his school during the third week that we are here. there was a family with a five year old daughter who was taking classes and they told norton that it was going well so we decided to let townsend give it a shot.
July 6, 2011, Wednesday, day 6
pretty routine day. breakfast with the mission group. marin has latched on to one girl who is from boulder, colorado. they were both coloring away this morning. i don't think marin will leave her alone now. after breakfast i took the kids back to antonio's house. (we've been doing the meals at cata's parents house) i spent some one on one time with each kid doing some workbooks that i brought. norton came home for lunch and then i left for my spanish class. when i got back norton had a headache and fever. i gave him some advil and then the kids and i walked down to dinner. right after everyone had finished, the power went out. i think it's pretty typical. it had been raining alot today. we walked back to the house where i am now. fortunately the power just came back on. i don't like that norton is sick. we seem so far removed from everything. no internet to find out what he might have. or to email the doctor. and i think about how these people have lived like this always. the last couple of days antonio had a headache but he just went about this business. no laying down to rest. or at least i didn't see him do that. kinda different. norton and i are a bit concerned about ellory. she just seems so anxious or something. she always wants to be right by mommy. this morning i got some bottles of bubbles and we went to play with some kids next door. townsend and marin ended up running around with the kids but ellory just stayed on the porch blowing bubbles with me and the other mom. it doesn't necessarily surprise us, but we want her to enjoy this trip and are trying to think about how we can help her have more fun.
pics to come soon...
103.4 degrees
Quick update from Norton. Wednesday night I had a temperature of 103.4. Lots of chills and a terrible head-ache, and whole body-ache. I've been taking fever-reducers, but it took a while for them to do anything. On Thursday morning, I couldn't move. Hadn't slept at all the night before and the fever was still around 102. On one hand, it's pretty clear that I've probably got the flu. I'll just keep resting, drink lots of liquids, and try to keep the fever down. On the other hand, we're in the middle of nowhere. The only "good" hospital/clinic for foreigners is 3 hours away. And there really isn't any counting on 911 in this part of the country if you need it. So it's natural to start thinking, "what if I have pneumonia or typhoid fever or malaria?" Highly doubtful, but when good medical help isn't readily available, it certainly changes the way you think about things.
Update: It's early Saturday afternoon and my fever has come down to about 99/100 and I feel much better (thanks to Ambien and Ibuprofen!) I'm still pretty worn out and my body is achy and I have a really bad cough (which I think is allegies since it started 1 hour after we got of the plane and seems unrelated to the sickness.) But overall, I'm feeling a lot better. The elders of Antonio's church prayed for me, and all the kids were praying too. Thanks for any of you who happened to be joining them.
Update: It's early Saturday afternoon and my fever has come down to about 99/100 and I feel much better (thanks to Ambien and Ibuprofen!) I'm still pretty worn out and my body is achy and I have a really bad cough (which I think is allegies since it started 1 hour after we got of the plane and seems unrelated to the sickness.) But overall, I'm feeling a lot better. The elders of Antonio's church prayed for me, and all the kids were praying too. Thanks for any of you who happened to be joining them.
Monday, July 4, 2011
guatemala update days 1-3
note: the following updates are from our trip to guatemala. pics to come when available.
july 1, 2011, friday, getting to Guatemala
Although the kids were up a bit past bedtime on Thursday night, they were wide awake at 5:30am Friday morning! That’s even earlier than usual. I think they were excited about our trip. Fortunately, our flight wasn’t until noon so we didn’t have to rush around or anything. Our friend, Laura Peters, came over to drive us to the airport and we got there at 10am. Checking in and security went faster than usual it seemed and we were heading to our gate by 10:20am. About 15 minutes into the waiting the kids were ready to get on a plane. “be patient” was our mantra. We finally got on board and were headed to Dallas. Marin doesn’t remember her first plane ride and she was very interested in what was happening. “are we flying yet?” “what’s that sound?” I don’t think she went one minute without asking me a question. I hope she enjoys flying and doesn’t take after her worrywart mommy. :) at the Dallas airport we ate some popeye’s chicken and then got on the plane to Guatemala city. Marin and I sat together again and she went from reading to coloring to watching a dvd and then the cycle would start again. Mommy was getting tired. The kids did really well. They were getting so tired on the last flight, yet we really didn’t want them to go to sleep because we wanted them to sleep that night. Once in Guatemala, we found our friends Julio and Oscar and they took us to the mission compound where Julio lives and hosts groups. He set us up in the apartment and it was really nice. The grounds there are gorgeous. Just full of lush plants and flowers. Courtyards and big doors. We weren’t too surprised that the newness of the place seemed to wake the kids up and they were running around with no thoughts of sleep anymore. Eventually we got everyone in bed. Marin woke up screaming a couple of times. Poor thing. The other two did fine.
july 2, 2011, saturday, day 2
Even with all the travelling and late night, the kids were awake at their usual 6:15am. Can we not get a break?? :) after everyone was up and dressed we heading to the dining area where we had pancakes with crema and strawberry sauce, fried potatoes, scrambled eggs, pan dulce (sweet breads) mosh (kinda like cream of wheat but oh so much better!) and fresh squeezed pineapple and papaya juice. The kids must have had 5 glasses of that juice-it was awesome! We chatted with Julio, his wife Jodi and their kids. Such a wonderful family. Love Jesus and love people. Townsend and Marin eventually got up from the table to run around the courtyard area. The courtyard where there is a fountain. Filled with water. The one that we had told them the night before that they were not to put their hands in. one of Julio’s daughters came in to the dining room and said, “ I think you need to go see the kids.” There they stood. With not just a hand in the water. No. they were in the fountain. Fully clothed. their only pair of tennis shoes on their feet. And they didn’t seem to think that what they were doing was wrong in any way. Sigh. Anyway-Julio’s daughter, Deborah, took us to buy some cell phones so Norton and I can keep in contact while we’re here. The other daughter, Linda, took care of the kids so we could go run errands. We finally got in the van, driven by Javier, and headed to San Pedro. It ended up being a pretty long trip. We had to go through Antigua to drop off a couple of men. We also stopped for lunch and went to see some ruins in ixmiche. The craziest part was being flagged over two times by the policia. Not for speeding or anything. Just so they could talk with Javier, look really mean, and make him give them money for lunch. Javier didn’t know much English but I had my dictionary and the words he kept using were, “swindling, fraud.” Pretty sad. The second time the policeman even opened the van doors and asked us questions about where we were going. I was a little nervous. Especially with having two Guatemalan kids. But I guess it could have looked like they belonged to Javier so that wasn’t even an issue. Praise God. We finally made it to Antonio’s house. it’s a lovely house built around a courtyard. With coffee plants and an avocado tree right outside. But it’s still pretty rustic. And Nancy, the daughter, is the only one who speaks English. And she’s not fluent or anything. And there are steps going up to where we are living. With no rails. Hard cement. I am praying extra hard for protection for us and the kids. As the adults were trying to have a conversation, Antonio and Cata, his wife, asked us what we were doing for dinner. Awkward. Well, we just got here. We have no transportation. It’s raining and they don’t live near a store. We said, “don’t worry about us. We brought some food.” But in the end, they said that we could eat with them. Black beans, tortillas-just what I wanted. Townsend was a little overwhelmed at one point last night. We were really tired but needed to eat and with all the Spanish conversation going on I guess it just hit him. He told me he wanted to go home. Poor little guy. Then Pedro, the thirteen year old son, started watching Disney channel and Townsend and the girls were just fine. :) the girls are in one room in the same bed and Townsend is with us. We’ll see how that goes.
july 3, 2011, sunday, day 3
The kids slept so well! I would have never thought that the girls would be able to sleep right next to each other. They were up around 6:30am and we got dressed and then went to eat breakfast-pancakes-with Cata and Antonio. Their kids were still asleep somehow. Even with our kids making lots of racket. After breakfast, Cata, Nancy, the girls and I walked to the Mercado(market). Sunday is a big market day in san pedro. We bought some pineapple, mango, plantains, bananas and a melon. I just couldn’t pass up all the fresh fruit. Then we went to find ground beef. You see, last night, Cata told me that she wanted me to make lunch American style. The main challenge is that they don’t have an oven so everything has to be made on the stove. Norton suggested hamburgers, thus the search for ground beef. We went to a butcher who basically cut off a hunk of some meat and put it through a grinder. I guess it’s similar to what they do in the states but in Guatemala it’s all done in the open air. Interesting. We went into one very small store to buy some chips and I saw some containers of nutella! Ironically, I had brought the family some and had given it to them in the morning to eat on our pancakes. They didn’t seem to recognize it so it was almost shocking to see it in the store. It would have cost them around $10 to buy it at their store. And the container wasn’t as big as my Costco huge container which cost about $4. I don’t know who would be able to afford it there. Maybe some desperate Americans/Europeans? The purchases were getting heavy so we took a tuk tuk back to the house. The girls loved the ride. During part of our adventure through the market Ellory seemed to hit a wall. She just started crying and after a bit told me that she wanted to go home. It’s interesting. Townsend and ellory have both missed home and Marin has been having the time of her life. She talks nonstop, per usual. And will try to speak Spanish. Or just talk in English to someone even if they don’t understand her.
july 1, 2011, friday, getting to Guatemala
Although the kids were up a bit past bedtime on Thursday night, they were wide awake at 5:30am Friday morning! That’s even earlier than usual. I think they were excited about our trip. Fortunately, our flight wasn’t until noon so we didn’t have to rush around or anything. Our friend, Laura Peters, came over to drive us to the airport and we got there at 10am. Checking in and security went faster than usual it seemed and we were heading to our gate by 10:20am. About 15 minutes into the waiting the kids were ready to get on a plane. “be patient” was our mantra. We finally got on board and were headed to Dallas. Marin doesn’t remember her first plane ride and she was very interested in what was happening. “are we flying yet?” “what’s that sound?” I don’t think she went one minute without asking me a question. I hope she enjoys flying and doesn’t take after her worrywart mommy. :) at the Dallas airport we ate some popeye’s chicken and then got on the plane to Guatemala city. Marin and I sat together again and she went from reading to coloring to watching a dvd and then the cycle would start again. Mommy was getting tired. The kids did really well. They were getting so tired on the last flight, yet we really didn’t want them to go to sleep because we wanted them to sleep that night. Once in Guatemala, we found our friends Julio and Oscar and they took us to the mission compound where Julio lives and hosts groups. He set us up in the apartment and it was really nice. The grounds there are gorgeous. Just full of lush plants and flowers. Courtyards and big doors. We weren’t too surprised that the newness of the place seemed to wake the kids up and they were running around with no thoughts of sleep anymore. Eventually we got everyone in bed. Marin woke up screaming a couple of times. Poor thing. The other two did fine.
july 2, 2011, saturday, day 2
Even with all the travelling and late night, the kids were awake at their usual 6:15am. Can we not get a break?? :) after everyone was up and dressed we heading to the dining area where we had pancakes with crema and strawberry sauce, fried potatoes, scrambled eggs, pan dulce (sweet breads) mosh (kinda like cream of wheat but oh so much better!) and fresh squeezed pineapple and papaya juice. The kids must have had 5 glasses of that juice-it was awesome! We chatted with Julio, his wife Jodi and their kids. Such a wonderful family. Love Jesus and love people. Townsend and Marin eventually got up from the table to run around the courtyard area. The courtyard where there is a fountain. Filled with water. The one that we had told them the night before that they were not to put their hands in. one of Julio’s daughters came in to the dining room and said, “ I think you need to go see the kids.” There they stood. With not just a hand in the water. No. they were in the fountain. Fully clothed. their only pair of tennis shoes on their feet. And they didn’t seem to think that what they were doing was wrong in any way. Sigh. Anyway-Julio’s daughter, Deborah, took us to buy some cell phones so Norton and I can keep in contact while we’re here. The other daughter, Linda, took care of the kids so we could go run errands. We finally got in the van, driven by Javier, and headed to San Pedro. It ended up being a pretty long trip. We had to go through Antigua to drop off a couple of men. We also stopped for lunch and went to see some ruins in ixmiche. The craziest part was being flagged over two times by the policia. Not for speeding or anything. Just so they could talk with Javier, look really mean, and make him give them money for lunch. Javier didn’t know much English but I had my dictionary and the words he kept using were, “swindling, fraud.” Pretty sad. The second time the policeman even opened the van doors and asked us questions about where we were going. I was a little nervous. Especially with having two Guatemalan kids. But I guess it could have looked like they belonged to Javier so that wasn’t even an issue. Praise God. We finally made it to Antonio’s house. it’s a lovely house built around a courtyard. With coffee plants and an avocado tree right outside. But it’s still pretty rustic. And Nancy, the daughter, is the only one who speaks English. And she’s not fluent or anything. And there are steps going up to where we are living. With no rails. Hard cement. I am praying extra hard for protection for us and the kids. As the adults were trying to have a conversation, Antonio and Cata, his wife, asked us what we were doing for dinner. Awkward. Well, we just got here. We have no transportation. It’s raining and they don’t live near a store. We said, “don’t worry about us. We brought some food.” But in the end, they said that we could eat with them. Black beans, tortillas-just what I wanted. Townsend was a little overwhelmed at one point last night. We were really tired but needed to eat and with all the Spanish conversation going on I guess it just hit him. He told me he wanted to go home. Poor little guy. Then Pedro, the thirteen year old son, started watching Disney channel and Townsend and the girls were just fine. :) the girls are in one room in the same bed and Townsend is with us. We’ll see how that goes.
july 3, 2011, sunday, day 3
The kids slept so well! I would have never thought that the girls would be able to sleep right next to each other. They were up around 6:30am and we got dressed and then went to eat breakfast-pancakes-with Cata and Antonio. Their kids were still asleep somehow. Even with our kids making lots of racket. After breakfast, Cata, Nancy, the girls and I walked to the Mercado(market). Sunday is a big market day in san pedro. We bought some pineapple, mango, plantains, bananas and a melon. I just couldn’t pass up all the fresh fruit. Then we went to find ground beef. You see, last night, Cata told me that she wanted me to make lunch American style. The main challenge is that they don’t have an oven so everything has to be made on the stove. Norton suggested hamburgers, thus the search for ground beef. We went to a butcher who basically cut off a hunk of some meat and put it through a grinder. I guess it’s similar to what they do in the states but in Guatemala it’s all done in the open air. Interesting. We went into one very small store to buy some chips and I saw some containers of nutella! Ironically, I had brought the family some and had given it to them in the morning to eat on our pancakes. They didn’t seem to recognize it so it was almost shocking to see it in the store. It would have cost them around $10 to buy it at their store. And the container wasn’t as big as my Costco huge container which cost about $4. I don’t know who would be able to afford it there. Maybe some desperate Americans/Europeans? The purchases were getting heavy so we took a tuk tuk back to the house. The girls loved the ride. During part of our adventure through the market Ellory seemed to hit a wall. She just started crying and after a bit told me that she wanted to go home. It’s interesting. Townsend and ellory have both missed home and Marin has been having the time of her life. She talks nonstop, per usual. And will try to speak Spanish. Or just talk in English to someone even if they don’t understand her.
Friday, June 10, 2011
drive.me.wild
will i never learn?? just a few blog posts ago i talked about the last time i let marin and townsend do "quiet time" together. disaster. why did i think a month's worth of time would effect any positive change???
the pictures above aren't overexposed. that haze is baby powder. i didn't even know we still HAD baby powder in the cabinet. they must have climbed on the counter to get to the top shelf.
so baby powder all over the bathroom. and just for fun they added some water to make it kinda pasty. oh wait! that's not quite fun enough. how about some diaper rash ointment to make it pasty AND greasy. did i mention that the floors are a ceramic tile with lots of crevices and ridges? a simple swipe with the mop would not make a dent in this mess. are we having fun yet???
when i originally walked in the bathroom, townsend looked up and immediately said, "marin started this." but that was about the most remorse either one of them showed. neither one seemed remotely aware of the seriousness of this crime. in fact, as i walked in and out of the bathroom trying to decide between screaming at the top of my lungs, getting the camera, or pulling all of my hair out, marin continued to sprinkle powder on the floor.
i was at a bit of a loss as to what to do with the little culprits. they ended up on towels in their rooms for a looooong time out. marin sat there singing every song she knew and at one point asked me, "mommy, do you like when i sing?"
the "good" that came from this incident was that the entire bathroom floor got spic and span. i think the last time i scrubbed that floor was the last time the kids made a mess. maybe if i clean in there more often the kids won't feel the need to go to such extremes in order to have a clean bathroom. i'll give it a try.
Tuesday, May 24, 2011
truth
last night at dinner townsend looked at me and said, "mommy, i love everything you cook for dinner."
ellory quickly followed that up by saying, "mommy, i love everything you cook for dinner."
so far so good.
then townsend said, "marin, you haven't said anything."
marin waited a few seconds and then said, "mommy, i love YOU!"
ellory quickly followed that up by saying, "mommy, i love everything you cook for dinner."
so far so good.
then townsend said, "marin, you haven't said anything."
marin waited a few seconds and then said, "mommy, i love YOU!"
Thursday, April 28, 2011
say what?
aunt susu is here. and she is always ready with an M&M, gummy bear, mint, tic tac, etc. this morning ellory started asking her for some, "squiggles." townsend came over and very smartly said, "ellory, they aren't called squiggles! they're called squiggles!"
about 7 seconds later he quietly said, "i mean skittles."
about 7 seconds later he quietly said, "i mean skittles."
Saturday, April 2, 2011
snow day
sometimes i just get tired. it's quiet time and although townsend is pretty good at staying in his room and playing by himself, marin makes it a battle every.single.day. there is never, i repeat, never, a day that she just goes in her room and plays by herself. i try to be consistent and just keep putting her back in without emotion. but like i said, sometimes i just get tired. and when i do, i usually regret it. like this particular day. marin had come out and ran to her brother's room and slammed the door-like i wouldn't figure out that she was in there. and i just gave up and let her stay in there. they weren't being too loud or anything so i let it go. should have known. townsend and marin had started breaking apart one of townsend's creations from preschool. a big styrofoam square glued onto a board along with a bunch of other stuff. and as you can see, it looked like we were having a blizzard in the house. for some reason, i didn't get mad. just got the camera to document. :)and where was ellory during all of this? sweetly sleeping in the back room. like she always does. every day. so grateful for at least one child who loves sleep.
Tuesday, March 29, 2011
happy 4th birthday, ellory!
the birthday day begins-the kids were out of bed right at 7am. they came downstairs and ellory opened her presents and cards. a new green comforter for her bed. dora dvd, and a laurie berkner cd. plus some college money from gran and pawpaw. more gifts will be trickling in. we decided to go to gunther toody's for a birthday breakfast. (the best we could do that would qualify as a "party." )
the kids had M & M pancakes-yummy!
family shot try #1
family shot try #2 (please be assured-no child was actually choked during this photo session)
family shot try #3- we're done.
the wait staff gave ellory a hat and sang happy birthday.
that night after dinner we had birthday cupcakes. cute smile.
we love to see ellory laugh. daddy was acting silly behind me as i took the picture.
ellory loves that she is now the same age as townsend.
couldn't snap the shot before marin had already taken a bite. the girl loves her food.dear ellory,
four years ago a 26 year old woman in guatemala, maria, gave birth to YOU! i think she is probably thinking of you today. wondering where you are. who you are. it is bittersweet for me to think about. what was probably a painful decision for her allowed us to have a beautiful daughter. we are so grateful for you elly bell. you continue to both delight and confound us. one minute you have your lower lip sticking out in a huge pout. the next minute you are sweet as pie. and we still haven't figured out what triggers either. sigh.
some things about this past year:
1. we saw dr. moser a few days ago. you are in the 90% for weight and height. he said that you were perfectly healthy.
2. you are in the big "crocodile" class this year at preschool. i am so glad to hear you talk about some of your friends-parker, hope, joey, luke.
3. you went to your first birthday party without your brother and sister. we went to natalie's 5th birthday party where you saw "toy story 3." or at least part of it. the party was at night and you had to go to bed. :)
4. we got you and marin bunk beds and you sleep on top!
5. you still have a blankie that a neighbor made in alpharetta. i call it your pepperoni blanket. you put it up to your nose and just seem to breathe through it. like you're smelling it.
6. you have started enjoying coloring and writing. i think your fine motor skills are getting better. and you usually take your time instead of just scribbling.
7. you continue to be the slowest eater of the family. i'm sure you've just read that it is better for digestion to eat slower and thus are taking good care of your body. :)
8. you are still cautious when new people come around. but once you warm up to someone it's a different story.
9. you took swimming lessons for the first time this year. you were pretty scared but each day you overcame your fears and got in the water and had a great time.
10. you love to dribble and play basketball.
11. mommy was kind of bummed when you started having opinions on your wardrobe. basically you want to wear jeans and three shirts. that's it. tears/whining/crying/refusing happen when i make you wear something different.
12. you had xrays taken at the dentist last month and we found out that you have two extra teeth on top with your permanent ones. you will have to have surgery later this year to take them out. good thing you can't read this post yet!
we love you so much ellory!
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